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Certain cultural traits, like the "honor cultures" common in herding societies where swift retaliation is necessary for survival, can cause violent friction when transplanted into modern, state-policed societies. This demonstrates how a cultural norm's value is highly context-dependent and can become maladaptive.

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"Honor Cultures" Developed for Survival Can Become Dysfunctional in Modern Societies | RiffOn