Instead of copying what top competitors do well, analyze what they do poorly or neglect. Excelling in those specific areas creates a powerful differentiator. This is how Eleven Madison Park focused on rivals' bad coffee service to become the world's #1 restaurant.

The highest form of luxury service isn't overt; it's the systematic removal of friction. Like The Ritz-Carlton's policy of only entering customer data once, the goal is to make interactions so seamless that the customer doesn't even notice the underlying effort.

Mentalist Oz Perlman aims not for mere entertainment, which is fleeting, but for creating "memorable moments." He knows that the more a person recounts an experience to others, the more vivid it becomes in their memory. Design products and services to be shared and retold.

Customers often rate a service higher if they believe significant effort was expended—a concept called the "illusion of effort." Even if a faster, automated process yields the same result, framing the delivery around the effort invested in creating the system can boost perceived quality.

The moments in a customer journey where expectations are lowest (e.g., a mandatory safety video) are the greatest opportunities for brand building. By turning a dull requirement into extravagant entertainment, a brand can generate immense goodwill and memorability.

A bespoke tailor is expected to provide luxury service; it's table stakes. However, a tire shop or contractor that delivers the same level of care and proactivity creates a far more powerful differentiator because it shatters customer expectations, driving powerful word-of-mouth.

Go beyond transactional perks. Unexpected, tangible gifts—like a pumpkin delivered in the fall—create a powerful emotional connection. This "surprise and delight" strategy fosters extreme loyalty and word-of-mouth marketing that a standard service call, no matter how perfect, cannot replicate.

Systematically identify frustrating moments in the customer journey, like waiting for the check. Instead of just minimizing the pain, reinvent these moments to be delightful. Guidara’s example of offering a complimentary bottle of cognac with the bill turns a negative into a generous, memorable gesture.

Instead of treating client relationships as transactional, create an exclusive 'Velvet Rope' experience. Unexpected, personalized gestures make clients feel curated, not commoditized. This 'surprise and delight' approach generates organic buzz and makes referrals do the heavy lifting for your marketing.