While headlines tout a massive wealth transfer, a survey of average consumers shows a more modest reality. About half of inheritances are under $100,000, and only 10% exceed half a million, suggesting the largest sums are concentrated among the very wealthy not captured in the data.

Contrary to the image of sudden wealth leading to lavish spending, a survey shows the majority of recipients (60%) use inheritances for savings, retirement, or investments. This practical approach prioritizes long-term financial stability, with only about a third using funds for housing or debt.

Massive wealth imposes a hidden 'social debt'—a crushing weight of expectations that dictates how heirs must live, who they can marry, and what values they must hold. As the Vanderbilt family story shows, this can destroy independence and happiness, effectively making heirs prisoners of their fortune.

Inheritance is not a universal experience. A Morgan Stanley survey reveals a stark divide: 43% of high-income households receive or expect an inheritance, compared to only 17% of lower-income ones. This highlights how intergenerational wealth transfers perpetuate existing financial disparities.

A growing trend in prenups involves clauses designed to protect second-generation wealth. Parents who plan to leave significant assets or provide ongoing financial support are now insisting their children get prenups to ensure family money doesn't become divisible marital property in a divorce.

Social Security is framed not just as a successful anti-poverty program, but as a system that annually moves over a trillion dollars from the younger, less wealthy working-age population to the most affluent generation in history, who are often asset-rich.

Contrary to the image of lottery-winner splurging, a Morgan Stanley survey shows 60% of inheritance recipients prioritize savings, retirement, or investments. Only about a third use it for housing or debt, with day-to-day consumption being a much lower priority.

To meaningfully reduce wealth inequality, policy should focus on enabling asset accumulation for lower and middle-income families. This includes making homeownership, higher education, childcare, and elder care more affordable and accessible, as these are critical levers for long-term wealth creation.

A Morgan Stanley survey reveals a significant gap: 43% of high-income households receive or expect an inheritance, compared to only 17% of lower-income households. This trend suggests wealth transfers reinforce existing financial disparities rather than closing them.