Many founders assume that identifying a customer's "pain point" signals a business opportunity. However, most people tolerate countless pain points without acting. True demand comes from an unavoidable, active project for which they are seeking a solution, not just a passive problem.

When searching for "blocked" demand, it's easy to invent problems from logical first principles (e.g., "all companies want to reduce costs"). This "wish-casting" ignores the customer's actual context and priorities. True pull is never generic; it must be a specific, top-of-mind problem for a user right now.

Real demand isn't a wish list; it's an active struggle. "Coping" customers are fighting a subpar solution right now, while "blocked" customers would act immediately if a viable option existed. Both represent a "spring-loaded" market ready to adopt a new product that solves their problem.

True product demand lies in the gap between what customers are currently doing (observable on their calendar) and their ultimate goals (their mental to-do list). A successful product closes this gap, better aligning a customer's actions with their underlying objectives. This mismatch is where "pull" is found.

Salespeople should shift their mindset from manufacturing urgency to discovering what is already urgent for the buyer. This involves understanding their top priorities and distinguishing between tasks that are merely important versus those that are truly time-sensitive for their business to succeed.

This reframes the fundamental goal of a startup away from a supply-side focus (building) to a demand-side focus (discovery). The market's unmet need is the force that pulls a company and its product into existence, not the other way around.

The "Pull Framework" defines demand not by pain, but by observable action. It requires a customer to have an active, unavoidable project, to have already explored existing options, and to find those options insufficient. This is the signal for a product they will eagerly "pull" from your hands, even if it's imperfect.

Urgency isn't about deadlines or discounts. It's the critical point where a customer realizes that the risk of maintaining the status quo is greater than the risk of adopting your solution. A strong ROI case that highlights the cost of inaction is the key to creating this realization and closing the deal.

After experiencing numerous lukewarm responses to failed ideas, the intense, urgent demand from a customer for a successful product becomes an undeniable signal. The contrast between a polite 'maybe later' and a frantic 'how do I get this now?' makes true product-market fit impossible to miss.