A product manager is ready for leadership not just by mastering their domain, but by demonstrating three key traits: understanding how all parts of the platform connect, being effective in customer-facing roles (sales, roadmap talks), and proactively building cross-team relationships.

The core job of a Product Manager is not writing specs or talking to press; it's a leadership role. Success means getting a product to market that wins. This requires influencing engineering, marketing, and sales without any formal authority, making it the ultimate training ground for real leadership.

To build trust and deliver value, product managers cannot be 'tourists' who drop in on other departments transactionally. They must become 'locals'—deeply integrated, trusted partners who are regulars in cross-functional conversations and are seen as being 'in the battle' together with sales, marketing, and other teams.

Instead of debating whether Product Management or Product Marketing "owns" positioning, teams should treat it as a critical point of shared alignment. It's a collaborative space where the entire team agrees on the product's value and market strategy.

In an organization still running in project mode, the 'Product Manager' title is misleading. The role is often relegated to organizing work and scheduling tasks for engineering. A true product model requires empowering these roles with the mandate, skills, and market access to make strategic decisions.

Contrary to the popular belief that it's always detrimental, for product managers, context switching is a core strength. Fluidly moving between customer, engineering, and marketing conversations is essential for integrating diverse perspectives to bring a product to life.

The ultimate sign of a product manager's influence is not receiving feature ideas, but being the go-to person for complex business problems. This indicates you are viewed as a strategic partner capable of diagnosing root causes, even when a solution isn't obvious.

Frame the product manager not as a feature owner, but as the central communication hub. Their primary function is to connect business, stakeholders, engineering, and design, navigating complex relationships and translating needs across disparate groups.

Unvalidated product ideas often originate from executive leadership or adjacent departments. A product manager's critical role is to use disciplined stakeholder management and clear communication to maintain focus on solving validated user problems, rather than simply executing on top-down directives.