More important than any technical skill is what Gary Vaynerchuk calls 'HP': Humility and Patience. Humility makes you immune to external judgment and envy, while patience prevents you from quitting too soon. Most creators fail because they lack this foundational mindset.
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The entrepreneurial journey is a paradox. You must be delusional enough to believe you can succeed where others have failed. Simultaneously, you must be humble enough to accept being "punched in the face" by daily mistakes and bad decisions without losing momentum.
The vast majority of people abandon new initiatives—podcasts, courses, newsletters—within months. By maintaining consistency long after the initial excitement fades, you gain a significant competitive advantage over more talented but less persistent peers. Your superpower is endurance.
A founder must simultaneously project unwavering confidence to rally teams and investors, while privately remaining open to any evidence that they are completely wrong. This conflicting mindset is essential for navigating the uncertainty of building a startup.
Salespeople often focus on being 'coachable' (receptive to feedback). A more powerful trait is humility—the proactive asking for help and recognition that success is a team effort. Humility unlocks collaboration and support, getting you further, faster than simply being open to advice.
The vast majority of people and businesses fail because they break emotionally under the relentless pressure of failure. The key to success is not brilliance but emotional resilience. The winner is often the one who can simply stand to iterate on failure longer than anyone else.
Top performers maintain a healthy balance by rapidly toggling between two extremes: believing they are exceptional and simultaneously feeling like they have failed. This duality fuels ambition while preventing the complacency that comes with pure ego or the paralysis of pure self-doubt.
Long-term success depends less on initial enthusiasm and more on "frustration tolerance"—the ability to endure boredom, repetition, and rejection without quitting. This is not an innate trait but a trainable skill that grows as you force yourself to persist through unenjoyable but necessary tasks.
The most successful founders rarely get the solution right on their first attempt. Their strength lies in persistence combined with adaptability. They treat their initial ideas as hypotheses, take in new data, and are willing to change their approach repeatedly to find what works.
You aren't competing with people who are more talented; you're competing with those willing to put in more imperfect reps. Success requires showing up consistently and learning in public, while others wait on the sidelines to be 'good' before they start. The key is persistence through the awkward phase.