A study of military officers found that those with a strong sense of calling were less likely to perceive their careers as stalled. This deep connection to their work fosters resilience and organizational commitment, even in the absence of traditional upward progression.

Many professionals continue down paths they dislike simply because they excel and receive external validation. This pattern of ignoring personal dissatisfaction for the sake of praise is a form of self-betrayal that systematically trains you to ignore your own inner guidance.

At age 44, Matt Spielman reframed his career pivot not as a risk, but as a mitigation of a greater one: staying on the wrong path. He believed waking up at 55 having not pursued his passion would be a far worse outcome than the uncertainty of starting his coaching practice.

The flip side of passion is that employees with a strong calling can be tough colleagues. Their intense commitment can manifest as hyper-criticism towards leaders, coworkers, and decisions that conflict with their personal vision, leading to strained team dynamics.

Traits like extreme responsiveness, which earn praise early in a career, can lead to burnout and poor prioritization at senior levels. Leaders must recognize when a once-beneficial belief no longer serves their new, scaled responsibilities and becomes a limiting factor.

Society elevates pursuing passion to a moral good, which makes people feel they are 'bad' if they don't have one or choose to leave one. This pressure can trap individuals in unsuitable roles and denigrates other valid, meaningful life paths.

The intense search for a career "calling" has become psychologically parallel to the search for a romantic soulmate. Both are driven by a "don't settle" mindset and create impossibly high expectations, often leading to disappointment and strained relationships when reality doesn't match the ideal.

Entrepreneurs driven by external pressures like social status or financial gain, termed "obsessively passionate," are ironically less effective. This type of passion leads to a lack of boundaries, diminished focus, and an inability to balance other life roles, ultimately hindering business performance.

The self-doubt often felt by high-achievers isn't a debilitating flaw. It can motivate leaders to over-prepare, seek diverse expert opinions, and ultimately make more informed decisions, turning a perceived weakness into a strength.