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26 Harsh Lessons I Learned in 2025 | Ep 985

26 Harsh Lessons I Learned in 2025 | Ep 985

The Game with Alex Hormozi · Dec 31, 2025

Key lessons from a record-breaking year: Master mental toughness, embrace the unseen work of greatness, and build an A-player culture.

Record-Breaking Success Requires a Disproportionate Amount of Unseen Work

Achieving unprecedented results, like a world record, requires a volume of work that is incomprehensible to outsiders. The visible 10-second race is the result of years of hidden preparation. Don't expect to achieve extraordinary outcomes with ordinary effort.

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26 Harsh Lessons I Learned in 2025 | Ep 985

The Game with Alex Hormozi·2 months ago

Vague Fears Paralyze Action; Detailing Them Reveals Their True, Tolerable Cost

The fear of failure is most powerful when it's a hazy, undefined concept. By writing down the step-by-step consequences of failure in excruciating detail, you often realize the actual outcome is manageable, stripping the fear of its power.

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26 Harsh Lessons I Learned in 2025 | Ep 985

The Game with Alex Hormozi·2 months ago

Avoiding Hard Partnership Conversations Today Guarantees Expensive Lawsuits Tomorrow

The desire to avoid awkward conversations with business partners, especially friends, leads to vague agreements. This inevitably results in costly and lengthy lawsuits later when stakes are high. Front-load the discomfort of detailed contracts to save millions and years of your life.

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26 Harsh Lessons I Learned in 2025 | Ep 985

The Game with Alex Hormozi·2 months ago

Successful People Suffer from the 'Third Marshmallow Fallacy' of Indefinite Delay

The marshmallow test teaches delayed gratification. However, many high-achievers take this too far, perpetually saving for a future that never arrives (the "third marshmallow"). After learning to delay gratification, the harder skill is learning the appropriate time to accept it and reap the rewards.

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26 Harsh Lessons I Learned in 2025 | Ep 985

The Game with Alex Hormozi·2 months ago

Mental Toughness Is a Measurable 4-Part System That Outperforms Motivation

Instead of relying on fleeting motivation, build mental toughness, which can be measured across four variables: tolerance before your behavior changes, the magnitude of that change, the speed of your recovery (resiliency), and how far you rebound past your baseline (adaptation).

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26 Harsh Lessons I Learned in 2025 | Ep 985

The Game with Alex Hormozi·2 months ago

Truly Unique People Are Built from First-Principles Decisions, Not Off-the-Shelf Identities

Most people pick their identities from pre-canned societal boxes like "hipster" or "redneck." High-agency individuals, however, build their lives deliberately by questioning every choice. This creates a unique combination of traits that makes them interesting and authentic.

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26 Harsh Lessons I Learned in 2025 | Ep 985

The Game with Alex Hormozi·2 months ago

Successful Businesses Self-Destruct by Chasing 'New' Instead of 'More'

A profitable business is a complex system that works. Changing one variable by pursuing something 'new' is statistically more likely to break the system than improve it. The highest risk-adjusted move is to do 'more' of what already works, even if it requires solving a much harder underlying problem.

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26 Harsh Lessons I Learned in 2025 | Ep 985

The Game with Alex Hormozi·2 months ago

If a Business Function Is Mediocre, Its Leader Is Always the Problem

When diagnosing a failing department, stop looking for tactical issues. The problem is always the leader, full stop. A great leader can turn a mediocre team into a great one, but a mediocre leader will inevitably turn a great team mediocre. Don't waste time; solve the leadership problem first.

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26 Harsh Lessons I Learned in 2025 | Ep 985

The Game with Alex Hormozi·2 months ago

An Employee's Unsupportive Partner Is the Biggest Limiter of Their Potential

An employee with a spouse who doesn't support their work will never reach their full potential. The mental and emotional drain from home-front conflict prevents them from fully committing to big goals. Leaders must pay attention to their team's personal lives to unlock discretionary effort.

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26 Harsh Lessons I Learned in 2025 | Ep 985

The Game with Alex Hormozi·2 months ago

Your Gut Reaction Is Often the Opposite of What Will Actually Achieve Your Goal

When faced with a negative situation, our gut reaction is often to retaliate. However, using a two-step frame ("What do I want to happen?" and "What increases the odds?") reveals that this initial impulse is usually counterproductive. Often, the most effective action is doing nothing at all.

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26 Harsh Lessons I Learned in 2025 | Ep 985

The Game with Alex Hormozi·2 months ago

Your Offer Isn't Compelling Until It Can Be Fully Explained in a Single Text Message

The ultimate test of a powerful offer is its simplicity. If you can't explain the entire value proposition in a short text message that elicits a "yes," it's too complex. This forces you to strip away jargon and focus only on what makes it a "stupid to say no" deal.

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26 Harsh Lessons I Learned in 2025 | Ep 985

The Game with Alex Hormozi·2 months ago

Scale by Increasing Supply Before Demand to Protect Reputation Over Short-Term Profit

When at equilibrium, you must choose what to sacrifice for growth: profit or reputation. Increasing demand first strains your team, damaging quality and reputation. Increasing supply first costs money and hurts short-term profit but builds capacity, protecting reputation and enabling sustainable growth.

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26 Harsh Lessons I Learned in 2025 | Ep 985

The Game with Alex Hormozi·2 months ago

After Reaching Scale, Your Value Shifts from Work Quantity to Judgment Quality

Early in your career, output is key. Past a certain threshold of success, however, you are compensated for the quality of your judgment, not the quantity of your work. Your highest leverage activity becomes making correct bets, which requires reorienting your life to maximize decision-making quality.

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26 Harsh Lessons I Learned in 2025 | Ep 985

The Game with Alex Hormozi·2 months ago

A-Players Cost More Per Headcount But Are Cheaper Overall Than B-Players

Keeping B-players doesn't just produce mediocre results; it actively drags down your A-players. Firing the B-players often results in the remaining A-players becoming even more productive, achieving more with a smaller, more expensive-per-head team. The net result is higher output for lower total cost.

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26 Harsh Lessons I Learned in 2025 | Ep 985

The Game with Alex Hormozi·2 months ago