Stop searching for your purpose as if it's a hidden object. Instead, create it. Ask 'why' you do something and build an empowering vision around it. This created context provides resilience when challenges inevitably arise, reminding you what you're up to.

Purpose isn't a pre-existing truth you find, like an archaeological dig. It's something you actively build, like an architect. You choose an area of interest, invest energy to build skill, and it transforms into a passion through a feedback loop of personal fascination and external validation.

Instead of actively 'finding' meaning, undertake a pilgrimage—a long, difficult journey away from distractions. The physical and mental strain weakens your defensive crouch and opens your mind, creating the conditions for your purpose to be revealed to you, rather than discovered through force.

While struggling with depression, Boyd Varty found relief by following a subtle 'uptick of energy' he felt when pretending to be a writer. This highlights the power of trusting small, non-rational, bodily sensations as a compass for major life decisions, bypassing purely logical analysis.

Modern life, with its focus on work and technology, overstimulates the analytical left hemisphere ('how' and 'what'). This neglects the right hemisphere, which processes the 'why' questions of love, mystery, and meaning. Finding purpose requires intentionally engaging in right-brain activities.

Many people find their calling not by pursuing a lifelong dream, but through a process of discernment. This involves engaging in new experiences, reflecting on what provides fulfillment, and then using those insights to inform the next step in a continuous cycle of trial and error.

Stop passively searching for a singular, pre-existing purpose. Instead, identify your 'purpose anchors'—things that excite you or that you would regret not doing. The real work is then to actively build a life around those anchors through deliberate action, which is a more controllable and effective process.

A powerful strategy for developing your own sense of purpose is to turn your focus outward. By actively spotting when a team member does something meaningful or uses a talent they hadn't noticed, you make a significant difference for them while simultaneously internalizing the habit of seeking and recognizing purpose for yourself.

Instead of searching for a predefined passion, identify the topics you have an insatiable and uncontrollable curiosity about. This innate interest is the strongest signal of what your life's work could be, even if it seems unconventional.