Daniel Ek uses the analogy of parenthood to describe a founder's evolving role. In the beginning, the company is completely dependent on the founder. Over time, like a child, it develops its own personality, and the founder's job shifts from direct control to guidance and support.
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After achieving repeatability, the founder/CEO has a 'second job.' They must stop building and selling the product themselves and start building the company that does it for them. This means shifting from being the PM of the product to becoming the PM of the company.
Daniel Ek was forced to re-evaluate his role when his head of product told him his presence in product reviews was unhelpful. After an initial emotional reaction, Ek stepped back, empowering his team and forcing himself to find new, more valuable ways to contribute.
Spotify's Daniel Ek argues against the myth of a single founder archetype. Instead of imitating famous entrepreneurs like Steve Jobs, founders should focus on self-discovery to build a company that is a natural extension of their unique personality and leadership style.
A founder's role is constantly changing—from individual contributor to manager to culture builder. Success requires being self-aware enough to recognize you're always in a new, unfamiliar role you're not yet good at. Sticking to the old job you mastered is a primary cause of failure to scale.
After eight years of grinding, the founder recognized he had taken the company as far as his skillset allowed. Instead of clinging to control, he proactively sought an external CEO with the business acumen he lacked, viewing the hire as a "life preserver" to rocket-ship the company's growth.
A brand's long-term health depends on leaders viewing themselves as stewards, not owners. This mindset allows the brand to have its own life, adapt, and evolve—much like a child growing into its own person—ensuring it can survive beyond the founder's direct control.
Bumble's founder believes the initial, all-consuming obsession is critical for getting a startup off the ground. However, this same intensity becomes a liability as the company matures. Leaders must evolve and create distance to gain the perspective needed for long-term growth and to avoid stifling opportunity.
