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The final step to entering a blissful meditative state (Jhana) is a paradox. While the desire for the state guides your practice, you must completely let go of that craving to actually achieve it. This act of releasing striving is a powerful training that generalizes to all other forms of goal pursuit.
Contrary to the belief that meditation requires actively deploying a method, Zen Master Henry Shukman reframes it as a path of 'doing less.' It's a process of letting go of the need to perform and allowing an intrinsic, peaceful well-being to emerge on its own, rather than trying to create it through effort.
Steve Levitt experienced a lasting sense of peace in India only after admitting he had zero desire to do anything there. This 'indifference to everything' eliminated the stress of striving. When the destination became irrelevant, the journey—even on a crowded bus—became peaceful and opened him up to the universe.
The relentless pursuit of goals (wealth, status, relationships) is often a subconscious strategy to engineer a life where we finally feel permission to be happy in the present moment. Meditation reverses this logic by training the mind to find fulfillment directly in the present, regardless of external circumstances.
The common pursuit of 'freedom of the will' can lead to a tyrannical ego and constant striving. Mysticism proposes an alternative: 'freedom from the will.' This involves practices that quiet the ego, leading to a 'released existence' of detached, flowing openness with the world.
According to Tibetan tradition, the ultimate goal of meditation is not a state of intense focus but "undistracted non-meditation." This is a trait of being fully awake and aware without any technique, control, or artifice, representing a complete, effortless integration of mindfulness into one's being.
The practice evolves from an active "doing" of focusing to a passive "not doing" of getting lost in thought. The goal isn't to add a skill but to subtract the habitual, automatic distraction by thought, revealing the mind's natural state of clear awareness. Thoughts become like "thieves entering an empty house."
To manifest a desire, you must be unattached to the outcome—a paradox. The solution is to consciously withdraw your attention from the underperformance or absence of your goal and redirect that energy to something else meaningful. This drops the resistance, allowing the desire to manifest.
The common advice that meditation should be goal-less is misleading. Goals are useful, but the key is to relate to them with play and openness. Many high-achievers instantiate goals as contracts for dissatisfaction, a self-coercive pattern that is ultimately ineffective and unsustainable.
The common advice to meditate without goals is a tactic to help people escape an unhealthy, striving-based mindset. The more advanced skill is to be explicit about one's goals but learn to relate to them playfully and with ease, not desperation. This transforms meditation into a training ground for a healthier approach to ambition.
Knowing when to quit is crucial. This decision shouldn't be made from a place of fear or a sense of failure. Instead, find a state of tranquility and ask yourself, 'Have I tried enough?' If the answer is yes, you can let go peacefully.