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To develop agency, consistently engage in "making" things—from cooking a meal to tinkering with code. This process reveals that the world is built by ordinary people, empowering you to believe you can also change and create things.
Many technical founders feel they aren't creative. The solution is to reframe this belief by deciding to be creative and then proving it to yourself through consistent action, like writing daily, to build a new identity.
View your mind not as a passive observer but as an active agent whose core function is to manifest your dominant thoughts into physical and emotional reality. This makes consciously directing your thoughts your most critical daily task for shaping your life.
We don't see objective reality; we see a story we project onto it. To reclaim control from negative interpretations, ask three questions: 1) 'What am I making this mean?' to recognize your role as creator, 2) 'What else could it mean?' to generate alternatives, and 3) 'What meaning is most useful?' to choose an empowering perspective.
Shift your focus from achieving outcomes to building an identity. Each time you perform a desired habit, you are casting a vote for being the type of person you wish to become. This identity-based approach fosters intrinsic motivation that is more durable than goal-oriented motivation.
To manifest a goal from the mind ('heaven') into the physical world ('earth'), you must give it form. Start simple: write it down, speak it aloud, post it on your fridge. This creates a bridge from the intangible to the tangible, making it real.
Since the brain builds future predictions from past experiences, you can architect your future self by intentionally creating new experiences today. By exposing yourself to new ideas and practicing new skills, you create the seeds for future automatic predictions and behaviors, giving you agency over who you become.
If you're not motivated by the outcome, focus on the process instead. Fall in love with who you are becoming on a daily basis, not just what you're building. This transforms work from feeling like pressure into a source of purpose and fulfillment.
To build creative agency in employees or children, resist the urge to provide answers to their questions. Instead, consistently respond with, 'What do you think?'. This simple shift coaches them to trust their own problem-solving abilities rather than depending on others for solutions.
Personal transformation occurs through action, not just intention. To shed an old identity, you must start making new decisions that the future version of you would make. Act 'as if' you are already that person, even if it feels uncomfortable or unfamiliar.
The most powerful way to make habits stick is to tie them to your identity. Each action you take—one pushup, one sentence written—casts a vote for a desired identity, like "I'm someone who doesn't miss workouts" or "I am a writer." This builds a body of evidence that makes the identity real.