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An observation from a two-step dance class reveals a social phenomenon where an elderly person's offensive or bigoted comments are often tolerated or dismissed by a group. This "pass" is granted due to their age, allowing them to operate outside of modern social norms.

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Extreme Old Age Can Grant a Social "Pass" for Bigotry and Offensive Behavior | RiffOn