The most significant mindset shift for founders is realizing they can't force a customer to have demand. Demand is an objective state in the customer's world—a project they are already trying to accomplish. This transforms sales calls from high-pressure convincing into low-pressure discovery, liberating the founder from feeling responsible for the outcome.

While VC pitches require an expansive vision, customer pitches are more effective when they're small and specific. After understanding their demand, describe your product narrowly as the exact tool that solves their immediate project. This precision builds confidence and creates pull.

Founders often rush discovery to save time for a long demo. This is backward. When you precisely understand a customer's 'pull' (their top blocked priority), your pitch becomes hyper-relevant and can be delivered in 90 seconds, making the entire sales process more efficient.

Founders often over-explain their product, showing every feature from the login screen to settings. Instead, demo only the specific functionality that solves the customer's stated problem. Anything more introduces confusion and causes them to lose interest.

Don't pitch features. The salesperson's role is to use questions to widen the gap between a prospect's current painful reality and their aspirational future. The tension created in this 'buying zone' is what motivates a purchase, not a list of your product's capabilities.

In initial meetings with enterprise prospects, Nexla's founder didn't pitch a solution. He focused entirely on validating the problem. By asking, "Do you see this problem as well?" he framed the conversation as a collaborative exploration, which disarmed prospects and led to more honest, insightful discussions.

To sell effectively, avoid leading with product features. Instead, ask diagnostic questions to uncover the buyer's specific problems and desired outcomes. Then, frame your solution using their own words, confirming that your product meets the exact needs they just articulated. This transforms a pitch into a collaborative solution.

Founders mistakenly believe a demo should showcase every feature to prove the product works. The real goal is to make the buyer feel understood. Show the minimum necessary to make it 'click' for them that your solution fits the specific demand they just described.

Founders often dread sales because they mistakenly believe their role is to aggressively convince customers. This "seller push" feels inauthentic. Adopting a "buyer pull" perspective, where you help customers solve existing problems, transforms sales from a chore into a collaborative process.