Achieving time and financial freedom doesn't automatically lead to fulfillment. Instead, it often creates an existential vacuum, leading to anxiety and depression. The key is to proactively fill this void with learning and service, rather than assuming leisure alone is the goal.

We believe reaching a major goal (like a weight target or financial milestone) will bring lasting joy. However, due to brain homeostasis, we quickly return to our baseline. This "arrival fallacy" reveals that fulfillment is found in the progress and journey, not the often-hollow destination.

Goals like making money or losing weight become self-destructive when treated as final destinations. To avoid the "arrival fallacy," frame them as intermediate steps that enable higher-order, transcendent goals like strengthening family bonds, serving others, or deepening friendships, which provide more enduring satisfaction.

If you feel unmotivated or burnt out, examine your goals. Arbitrary material targets like a specific salary or a big house are empty motivators. The moment you achieve them, you will realize nothing has fundamentally changed, leading to a cycle of dissatisfaction and a constant struggle for motivation.

The hunger driving ambitious people stems from the gap between their current reality and their desired future. Achieving that future collapses the gap, leaving them without a clear direction or motivation—a problem most people never face.

The lesson that 'money can't buy happiness' is often only learned through experience. Achieving material success can paradoxically lead to happiness by proving that external achievements are not the answer. This makes the pursuit itself a necessary stepping stone to discovering true fulfillment.

Humans derive more satisfaction from progress and growth than from a static state of being. The journey of building wealth—the striving, learning, and overcoming challenges, especially with a partner—is often more rewarding and memorable than the destination of simply possessing wealth.

The popular goal of achieving financial independence to stop working is flawed. True happiness requires both independence (control over your time) and a sense of purpose (a reason to be productive). Lacking purpose after achieving financial freedom can lead to depression, as work itself can be a source of fulfillment.

Reaching a long-sought-after career milestone, like a specific promotion, can unexpectedly lead to depression and a sense of aimlessness. The "chase" provides direction, and without a new goal to replace it, you can feel lost, like a dog that has finally caught the car it was chasing.