At the height of the dot-com bubble, top venture capitalists were incredibly stressed and unhappy. The fear of missing out on the next big deal if they took even an afternoon off created immense pressure that overshadowed their unprecedented financial success.
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In a rising market, the investors taking the most risk generate the highest returns, making them appear brilliant. However, this same aggression ensures they will be hurt the most when the market turns. This dynamic creates a powerful incentive to increase risk-taking, often just before a downturn.
Top investors experience an "asymmetry of emotion." The pleasure of significant gains is muted—a feeling of satisfaction rather than euphoria. However, the pain of losing capital, particularly during irrational market events, is disproportionately intense, driven by the responsibility of managing other people's money.
This anecdote illustrates the peak irrationality of the dot-com bubble. A tech hedge fund manager, despite being up 135% year-to-date, found he was the worst performer at a dinner with peers. Recognizing this as a sign of a top, he went 100% cash and was the sole survivor among them.
In venture capital, the greatest danger isn't investing at high valuations during a boom; it's ceasing to invest during a bust. The psychological pressure to stop when markets are negative is immense, but the best VCs maintain a disciplined, mechanical pace of investment to ensure they are active at the bottom.
Conventional advice about work-life balance to avoid burnout is counterproductive for founders with extreme ambitions. Building a massive, venture-scale company requires a level of obsessive focus and sacrifice that is inherently unbalanced. For this specific phase of life, prioritizing the company above all else is necessary for success.
The prime of a venture capitalist's career is a brief, shining moment. It's preceded by a long period of being considered 'too young' and quickly followed by the industry wondering 'when is he going to retire?'
The high-stakes world of deal-making is described as 'the flow,' a state that rewards total commitment but punishes those who are 'half in, half out.' Success requires giving one's all to the ecosystem, as it extracts value from those who only attempt to take from it.
In a Joe Rogan interview, the multi-trillion-dollar company's CEO revealed a constant state of anxiety. This insight shows that for some hyper-successful entrepreneurs, the intense pressure and memory of near-disasters are more potent motivators than the abstract goal of success, creating an insanely lonely experience.
Despite major professional wins like a number one bestselling book, Scott Galloway reveals that a year of flat investment returns still weighs on him mentally. This highlights how even wealthy individuals can feel an "addiction to money" and benchmark their personal success against market performance, separate from their primary career achievements.
