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Kip Tindell argues against the common advice to avoid hiring friends or spouses. He believes working with loved ones is ideal because shared values and passion are powerful business assets. His partnership with his wife, Sharon, was central to The Container Store's success and their enjoyment of the work.

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Container Store Founder Refutes Conventional Wisdom: "You Should Work with the People You Love." | RiffOn