The romanticized idea of not caring what others think is fundamentally anti-social and prevents personal growth. Empathy and the ability to internalize feedback are core human skills; a genuine inability to do so is a clinical trait, not a sign of strength or leadership.
This popular DEI phrase is a "fair-weather" inclusion policy that ignores structural inequities. It asks marginalized workers to be vulnerable in environments that are often unsafe, shifting the burden of "authenticity" onto those most at risk of being harmed by it.
While ERGs provide community, they are structurally incapable of ensuring worker safety or advocating for material changes. As company-sponsored entities, they cannot collectively bargain or challenge employment conditions, making them projects of representation rather than instruments of worker power.
Companies that for years claimed remote work or flexible schedules were unreasonable for disabled employees instantly implemented those exact policies for everyone during the pandemic. This exposed that the barriers were never about feasibility but about corporate willingness and systemic ableism.
The call for radical workplace honesty ignores the psychological reality that most people view themselves through a self-serving, biased lens. Their "honesty" is often a projection of an inflated self-concept, as true self-awareness is rare and rarely aligned with how others perceive them.