Instead of gradually easing into a new skill, jump in completely to get an immediate, honest assessment of your abilities. This “cannonball” approach bypasses the procrastination of playing it safe and provides a clear starting point for targeted improvement, especially when training with experts.
“Giving yourself grace” is not an excuse for poor effort. It is a post-performance strategy. Uphold a high standard in your work, but apply grace in the evaluation by learning from mistakes without obsessive self-criticism, which prevents you from backing away after a setback.
Don't fight a negative inner voice with empty affirmations. Instead, systematically collect small, undeniable proofs of your capability. Each piece of evidence erodes the credibility of your inner critic, making it easier to push past self-imposed limits.
True competitive belief is not the delusion that you'll win every time. It's the persistent conviction that you *can* win, even against seasoned champions. This “chip on the shoulder” mentality fuels the underdog energy needed to create upsets and build momentum.
Your brain can become hardwired to expect failure at a certain point, even after your skills have improved. As speaker Alex Weber discovered watching his own training videos, his body could go further than his mind would let him, revealing a gap between his actual and perceived limits.