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Not all leisure is created equal. Mike Rucker suggests categorizing activities as either an 'investment' (enriching you now and in the future, like planning a trip) or a 'cost' (time you'll never get back, like aimlessly scrolling social media). This mental model encourages more deliberate, enriching choices for your finite free time.

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