Preparing a company for acquisition can lead founders to make short-term decisions that please the acquirer but undermine the brand's core agility, setting it up for failure post-sale. The focus shifts from longevity to a transaction.

To vet potential investors or acquirers, founders should ask them to articulate their vision for the startup's next five years. Hearing their story told through the buyer's eyes reveals the depth of their strategic thinking and helps assess whether their vision aligns with the founder's, ensuring a better post-transaction fit.

Alex Bouaziz's core M&A principle, learned from his father, is to optimize for long-term satisfaction over short-term leverage. Even when holding the upper hand in negotiations, he structures deals to be fair for both sides. The goal is for both the acquirer and the acquired founder to look back in five years and feel the deal was a great outcome, ensuring better integration and alignment.

To sell a company from a position of weakness, first secure a strategic partnership. This creates dependency and leverage, reframing the eventual acquisition talk around a proven, shared success rather than a failing business.

A successful exit is a highly choreographed dance, not an abrupt decision. Founders should spend years building relationships with line-of-business leaders—not just Corp Dev—at potential acquiring companies. The goal is to 'incept' the idea of an acquisition long before it's needed.

When Joe Coulombe sold Trader Joe's, he used a one-page contract with non-negotiable terms, including complete autonomy and a commitment to not merge with Aldi. This ensured the buyer was acquiring the unique culture and strategy, not just the assets, preserving what made the company successful.

Instead of seeking synergies by integrating acquired companies like Hailey Bieber's Rhode, Elf Beauty keeps the founder and their team in place. The goal is to provide resources like sales support and R&D to help the founder's original vision scale faster, avoiding common M&A pitfalls.

Understanding a founder's real motivation for selling is crucial. Some want a partner for growth, while others are seeking an exit. A founder could take a partial earn-out and leave the day after closing, abandoning the business and becoming your biggest integration risk.

Founders who wait until they need to sell have already failed. A successful exit requires a multi-year 'background process' of building relationships. The key is to engage with SVPs and business unit leaders at potential acquirers—the people who will champion the deal internally—not just the Corp Dev team who merely execute transactions.