Curtis Sliwa argues that true masculinity isn't defined by symbols of power like guns but by a commitment to protecting the vulnerable—the poor, elderly, and infirm. He frames it as a moral responsibility to risk one's life for strangers, a form of humanitarian service that stands in stark contrast to conventional notions of strength.

When raising boys, a father's actions are far more impactful than his words. Instead of lecturing on what it means to be a man, consistently demonstrating service, respect, and responsibility will be internalized by a son over time, even if the lesson isn't explicit or is initially met with embarrassment.

Malala attributes her unique journey not to her own special qualities, but to her father's choice to allow her to be an activist when other fathers stopped their daughters. This highlights the crucial role men play in dismantling patriarchy through active support and non-interference.

Malala reconciled her feminist ideals with her desire for marriage by choosing a partner who shared her values. She concluded that individuals can redefine historically patriarchal institutions by creating new norms based on mutual respect and equality, rather than simply rejecting them outright.

Scott Galloway argues the far right recognized the crisis facing young men before the left. While their solutions were regressive—blaming women and minorities—their early diagnosis of the problem created a political vacuum they successfully filled, attracting a disenchanted male demographic.

While the right promotes a flawed version of masculinity, the left's common response is to suggest men adopt more feminine traits. Galloway argues this is ineffective because it fails to offer an aspirational, positive vision of masculinity, leaving many men feeling alienated and unrepresented.

Manhood isn't an age but a state of being generative: producing more jobs, love, and care than you consume. This reframes masculinity around contribution rather than status or age, offering a clear, actionable goal for young men to strive for.

The ultimate purpose of achieving strength, wealth, and influence is to graduate from protecting oneself and one's family to protecting the wider community and even those you'll never meet. This selfless act of protection is described as "planting trees the shade of which you'll never sit under."

Traditional gestures like paying for a date can be reframed for modern contexts. The act is not about demonstrating greater wealth or assuming a provider role. Instead, it signals a willingness to offer service and dedicate one's resources to the other person, shifting the meaning from financial dominance to thoughtful generosity.