Product management is inherently chaotic due to constant context switching, ambiguity, and difficult stakeholder conversations. Success isn't about finding a perfect process, but developing the resilience to navigate this mess and guide teams from ambiguity to clarity.

The core job of a Product Manager is not writing specs or talking to press; it's a leadership role. Success means getting a product to market that wins. This requires influencing engineering, marketing, and sales without any formal authority, making it the ultimate training ground for real leadership.

Product leaders often feel pressure to keep executive discussions confidential. However, effective leaders break this norm by immediately sharing and translating high-level business goals for their teams. This transparency empowers individual PMs to connect their daily work to what truly matters for the company's success.

When a product team is busy but their impact is minimal or hard to quantify, the root cause is often not poor execution but a lack of clarity in the overarching company strategy. Fixing the high-level strategy provides the focus necessary for product work to create meaningful value.

The 'CEO of the product' metaphor is misleading because product managers lack direct authority. A better analogy is 'the glue.' The PM's role is to connect different functions—engineering, sales, marketing—with strategy, data, and user problems to ensure the team works cohesively towards a shared goal.

In an organization still running in project mode, the 'Product Manager' title is misleading. The role is often relegated to organizing work and scheduling tasks for engineering. A true product model requires empowering these roles with the mandate, skills, and market access to make strategic decisions.

The ultimate sign of a product manager's influence is not receiving feature ideas, but being the go-to person for complex business problems. This indicates you are viewed as a strategic partner capable of diagnosing root causes, even when a solution isn't obvious.

Frame the product manager not as a feature owner, but as the central communication hub. Their primary function is to connect business, stakeholders, engineering, and design, navigating complex relationships and translating needs across disparate groups.

While execution skills are table stakes, the leap to leadership requires the ability to create clarity amidst conflicting incentives and chaos. Senior PMs are trusted because they can synthesize complex situations, align teams, and simplify decision-making, enabling others to move forward effectively.