Top performers are frequently unable to teach their skills effectively because doing and teaching are separate abilities. Their verbal explanations may be inaccurate post-rationalizations. To truly learn from the best, ignore their narratives and instead meticulously observe and replicate their specific, observable behaviors.
Intelligence is a rate, not a static quality. You can outperform someone who learns in fewer repetitions by simply executing your own (potentially more numerous) repetitions on a faster timeline. Compressing the time between attempts is a controllable way to become 'smarter' on a practical basis.
True value comes from the person you become while overcoming challenges. A lucky break, like winning the lottery, prevents you from going through the 'gauntlet' that forges skill and character. The struggle itself is the prize, as it is the only path to becoming your best possible self.
When learning, focus exclusively on observable inputs that produce desired outputs. Avoid getting lost in psychological or emotional explanations for why something works. A tennis coach physically corrects your grip; they don't analyze your childhood to understand why you hold the racket wrong. Focus on what people do.
After initially modeling others, mastery comes from generating 'first-party data.' Execute a high volume of repetitions, then analyze your own top 10% of outcomes. Identify the observable differences between your best and worst results, incorporate those learnings, and repeat the cycle for a powerful, personalized feedback loop.